♥ 这一年. 长大了

如果要用三个字形容你的这一年　
那会是什么？
我想说 "长大了"

妳结婚了
那一晚，妳是多么幸福美丽
真替你开心
久违的聚会
体面的西装皮鞋，漂亮的高跟鞋连身裙

妳抱怨着老板娘的不是
他说着毕业后的梦想
妳的他买了新房子
我问几时到你结婚
他们一直猛灌酒，话少了
妳说干脆嫁个有钱人算了

还记得当年班里打打闹闹
谁偷偷喜欢着谁
打赌着谁会是第一个结婚
一起留校一起补习
一起听那些听不懂的课
浅蓝色校裙
不约而同的手势  
青涩的年纪
一晃，我们长大了



这一年
认识了很多不同的人
看懂了很多事情
原来人与人之间
就是这样
被一次次的打击以后
不自觉地把围墙越筑越高

谢谢妳那一句 “我忘了算你”
谢谢你迟迟没告诉我那件事情
谢谢你曾经这样数落我    讽刺地把我批评
这些事    我很在意
久久没有忘记
我们还会见面    故事还会继续
显然，这不会是深厚的情谊
那些裂痕已经扎根
不断提醒着自己该淡淡地对你

或许是经历得多
人开始变得敏感
越来越会用心体会
偶尔和朋友聚聚谈谈心    是八卦又是关心 
喝点小酒　真话假话说出来似乎也分不清　
随口答应   简单的旅行其实也瞒开心
一起玩牌   一起看戏    一起上云顶    一起疯狂呐喊
那些小小的事情   感动的内疚的珍惜的
都放在心里

其实相处久了  自然了解每个人的个性
谢谢你们一直那么关心我     替我强烈推荐异性
我知道他们都很好   可是我比谁都了解自己
不对的就是不喜欢

其实很享受现在的自己  
喜欢没有牵挂没人管
拜托    现在的我很好    
真的不想改变什么

 “ 要跟谁在一起，这跟他好不好关系不大吧？主要还是感觉。”   沈佳仪说

                                                                               《那些年，我们一起追的女孩》

这一年

回家的次数好像变少

但我一直很珍惜

每一次都带着期待的心情回去

想着要带妈妈去吃好料

陪爸爸去晨运

一心只想开开心心的团聚

可是每当听见那些冷言冷语

被你们的吵声惊醒

看见那些眼泪委屈

看着你们一番好意被唾弃

只能往心里啃

难道你就不能用好一点的语气    开玩笑的话语

成熟点    做些让人可以接受的事情

他们老了

让他们快乐好吗？

非要这样唱反调下去？

我的新年愿望不贪心

真的很想像以前那样   

躺在床上和你聊个没完   没有避嫌    什么都能讲    

偶尔替养你长大的他们   想一想吧   

偶尔就让一让他们

多么希望每次回家    看见你们都开开心心

这一年　

深深体会到　

你们一个个对我来说很重要

身边的你们都对我很好

小小的帮助　微不足道的肯定　贴心的安慰

真的都让我很感动

有时好到让我有些过意不去

♥ 谢谢你们陪我度过 2011

♥ 给我亲爱的朋友

不管外面的世界怎样

别人说你怎样

还是把信任放在你身上

一天一天的加码

可是     筹码好像渐渐输光

似乎没有坦白的意思
那是多么令人尴尬 沮丧 失望

诚实不难    只怕你存心隐藏  

我亲爱的朋友   

其实没有怎样

打从那天起       

把祝福的话语想好

从白天等到夜晚

可笑的是   那些话语根本没机会上场

我亲爱的朋友

是故事变复杂了

还是你一直都这样？

当你发现那些冷淡

其实想提醒你  

让她感受那些温柔   那些体贴问候

仙人掌慢慢枯萎了

巧克力一颗一颗吃光了

你还是我亲爱的朋友

只是那些故事

不该再有我

♥ 那些年

那些年的事，你还记得吗？

很庆幸有你这个朋友，总是那么清楚的把当年的事告诉我们
我想说      真的忘了好多好多

隔壁班那讨人厌的男生
那个总是口花花的男生
中四那年转校了，小小只很顽皮的异族同学
后面班带着厚厚眼镜的那个女生
还有那个曾经给我送伞； 那个给了我一只猪；那个傻傻被车撞的男生
那些年　毕业旅行　我不知道的事

我们不经意的聊着聊着
述说着陈年往事　　
有趣的是　　当你发现原来当年发生过这样的事

那些年　　那些事　　深深沟起了很多回忆
放得下的，放不下的，错过的，美好的，惊讶的，怀念的，生气的，伤心的. . .
哇！真的太多了


笑一笑　　我们长大了

不变的是 ♥ 你们是我一直相信的人

♥ 谢谢你们

以前总是看见周围朋友的status很emo
就是你不爽然后想让全世界人知道
看到很多comments 很多的"Like" 会让你过得更好
我觉得那是一种发泄  
一种无奈的心情      不知道如何是好


最近我的生活很烂   很糟    很烦
梦很多     睡不好
该做要做想做不想做的东西       都很多!
就是每当睡前或睡醒都有一个很长的 To-do-list
像autorun virus那样自动pop out
我觉得那些心情       不应该带到学校
影响你的好心情就不好
对不起，有时还是控制不了


谢谢你们在我愁眉苦脸上课的时候抓痒让我微笑
谢谢你们在我emo的时候陪我去吃麦当劳薯条
谢谢你们陪我吃饭吹吹水聊个有的没的让我暂时忘掉
谢谢你们听我埋怨      听我发牢骚
谢谢妳总是在电话里问我吃饱了没      叫我早点睡不要对太多电脑
谢谢妳们在我失意的时候贴心地告诉我，要加油!

我想说，有你们真好 ~~~~~

♥ Times of your life

I came across this song

I think I should share with all of you ♥

the music video actually caught my attention at first sight

it reminds me many pieces of memories left behind

and lyrics link each small part of the puzzle into a picture

it's a very touching song indeed

(apologize for the clips without lyrics as I really can't find any)

========================= lyrics ==============================
"Good morning, yesterday
You wake up and time has slipped away
And suddenly it's hard to find
The memories you left behind
Remember, do you remember

The laughter and the tears
The shadows of misty yesteryears
The good times and the bad you've seen
And all the others in between
Remember, do you remember
The times of your life (do you remember)

Reach back for the joy and the sorrow
Put them away in your mind
The memories are time that you borrow
To spend when you get to tomorrow

Here comes the saddest part (comes the saddest part)
The seasons are passing one by one
So gather moments while you may
Collect the dreams you dream today
Remember, will you remember
The times of your life

Gather moments while you may
Collect the dreams you dream today
Remember, will you remember
The times of your life
Of your life
Of your life

Do you remember, baby
Do you remember the times of your life
Do you remember, baby
Do you remember the times of your life "
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Remember to realize things before it's too late

Have lots of friends before you are alone

Accept things rather than deny them

Love people before you lose them

Life comes just once

Love it while you live it ♥

♥ Holiday mood

well, I am totally in holiday mood now!!!

lazy bum |definition: people who intentionally sleeps all day, doesnt change out of pjs till afternoon, takes hours to text back and basically do nothing all day|  Oops, it's me !

so here are things I ♥ to do during my holiday:

1) Lay in my bed

2) eat,eat,eat....and still EAT 

3) and most of my time dump here  =p  (chatting, sharing, comment...bla bla...)

 

4) ♪♫ listening music is a MUST ♪♫ 

recently, I found this song kind of relax and the music video is damn~~~ FUNNY!  

(the monkeys are amusing....LOL) 

btw, the lyrics just exactly describe my holiday mood !

5) Blogging 

(yea, I know you've been waiting for my new post until neck pain dy...)

6) Shopping (typical girls' activities la...we just can't say NO to sales and beautiful things, right? Oops)

7) Travelling & Photoshooting

I wish to travel around as much as I could afford during my University time. 

Somehow, after industrial training I have a deep thought that working life is
HELL BORED =.=

Most of the time committed to work and not much time to go for a trip unless you apply a leave. And I guess when you are travelling with a gang of Uni buddies (young, energetic, dare to try everything, crazy, wild) will be much more different compare with the time you are working and travelling with colleagues (mature, conversation more or less regarding works&money&car&children, cold jokes). See the difference?

So, this semester I went for a few places as below:

Broga Hill, Semenyih

Asian Water Sports Village, Puchong

Taman Negara, Pahang

and what's Next??? yep, I am looking forward for my next trip, stay tuned for more information 

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I'm enjoying my holidays with all sort of my favourite activities. For me, holiday is time to compensate myself, pampering myself and do whatever I feel like doing!
(NO STUDY STUFF PLEASE)

I have plenty of plans this holiday although it seems too short for me. 

Girls, I know I will see you very soon ♥ 

Guys, call me up for gathering as we have such a long time never meet each other. 

my hiao sister, I know you're leaving to Melaka soon, will miss you ♥ take care there

mummy, I promise to accompany you for jogging. I will try my best to wake up.
hiek hiek =p

daddy, I promise to help you on burning the cd. (emm...yes, I'll keep my words)

= END =

♥ 凌晨 a.m.

你问我
一天当中最喜欢什么时候？

....夜晚
很迟很夜的那种
那应该是凌晨










我觉得夜晚是属于自己的
会想很多  
反复的思绪
有时有点悲伤有点自责有点emo
你的话　　妳的举动　　他的不经意
有时我会在意　　也有情绪
徘徊在心里

窝在床     播放mp3　放空自己
偶尔想听听Olivia Ong 的歌曲
Bossanova style 的旋律　很舒服
夜晚不喜欢太吵　　
一个人静静就好

偶尔思绪穿插了你的画面
那个场景　　那些话语
知道那是曾经　　是过去
不再眷恋的回忆
只想闭上眼睛



夜晚就是这样
很接近心底　　真实的情绪
想啊想　　
不开心的留在这一刻里　慢慢的睡去
天亮醒了　　心情又好了　=)

♥ the photo

I love this photo very much ♥
nothing to do with the photography skills
but the strong bonding between us

Yes! we went for a karaoke session.
Surprise? Wondering what type of songs we sang? lol
It's like a "ROJAK" mixed song list...
from Teresa Teng, Tsai Chin, SHE, Jay Chou, Taylor Swift, Siti Norhaliza......to Lady GaGa
no doubt my sister and I are both get the genes from daddy
because WE ♥ SINGING!
(you'll never believe that my daddy DIY to fix a speaker in our washroom LOL!!!)

back to the topic  =P
I treasure every single piece of family photo
every photo can tell a story
maybe girls are more sensible. don't you?
but some might think such photos are meaningless =(

So, try to answer a few questions:
when was the last time you spent time with your family?
when was the last time you saw the smiles on their faces?
what was the occasion? any memorable incident?

Yep, many of you can't really answer, isn't it?

we need something to flash back our memories.
regardless whether it's a diary, a snapshot or a video clip......
one day, you'll certainly missing all of the precious moments



Life is relational
Remember how they brought you up
Spend time talk to them 
Listen to them 
Put a smile on their faces  =) 
Cherish the family bond ♥ 

♥ 下雨天

这样的雨  我想起了你  

那时的记忆    有点朦胧 

但记得我们很开心

在屋檐下做着科学实验

一片片碎纸做成了那张再生纸   

喜欢躲在房间里弹你的keyboard

一起折着纸船    一个个放进水里   

看着你家那些浮萍   一滴滴水滴打在叶子

我很喜欢   它们很可爱

你给了我一颗浮萍

那是单纯的年纪

那年后，没有再见过你

但每当下起这样的大雨

我想起了你   还有那些回忆

像彩虹一样美丽

不同的天气   不同的心境   不同的场景   

但从来没忘记你们给我的回忆

( 那些懂我名字的人   我在说你   好想念我们在一起 )

♥ is in the air

Do you feel it? If not, please look around.
LOVE is in the air ♥

For those falling in love, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY !!!
*Stay sweet with your loved one & give him/her some surprise to strengthen your relationship*
*Just get a bunch of stunning red roses to melt her heart, make her smile*

Hey my single friendssss, just because you're single doesn't mean you're alone!
(P.S. I know there are many good girls & good boys out there still single and available. That's why I use the term friendssss to represent each and everyone of you)
come on, stop posting those clueless status to hire for girlfriend on valentine.
stop wallow up in self-pity at home situation
stop all the counting for single life you've been
STOP!!!

a season of love doesn't limited to boy-girl relationship
so, it's ok to spend it with people who have NEVER LET YOU DOWN
(eg. your family, siblings, closest buddies, your BFF...)
Get them along !
go for a drink, gossiping, have a head-to-toe pampering session, watch a movie, hanging out to the shopping mall......
spend the day doing whatever you love the most
Just have fun ^^

*Do Not let a couple-driven culture lead you in urge of getting in a relationship*

you will get disappointed if you have chosen the WRONG one
some people are just afraid to be alone
they just wanna stay in a relationship (regardless it's a bad relationship)
oh man! you really miss out everything awesome about being single



so what is the rush?
Being on your own, until you meet your Mr. or Ms. Right
The person should touch your feeling, attract your eyesight, be your soulmate...
most important, your heart tells you he or she is "the one"

* Positive relationship can end up in an aesthete beauty * 

Lastly I would like to wish all of my ♥ readers, Happy Valentine's Day!!!

( I believe the voice of Olivia Ong could touch your soul, enjoy ♥ )